I broke up with my gf last week for really incredibly stupid reasons...I regret it so much...when I asked her if we could get back together and everything she said that she just wanted to be friends for now and get to know each other better and see what happens. We weren't together all that long, only like a month, but we really fell hard for each other in that time. I'm really not all that hurt by the suggestion, but it's going to be really difficult because I really have fallen for her hard. She says she needs time to learn to trust me again, that I won't break up with her next time something goes wrong...I know I won't but she doesn't and I understand it will take time to fix everything...She says she wants to continue seeing each other and talking and getting to know me and wants me to continue getting to know her and if we do end up getting back together she wants to handle it calmly and take our time, which I understand perfectly. How can I make this stage of our relationship pass by more easily and avoid all of the pain that is going to come when I see her and it's not how it was...If anyone has any answers I'd really appreciate it.How Can You Be ';Just Friends'; With Someone You Love While Trying To Repair That Relationship?
seems like a month was not that long in the first place? i would just take some time to get to know her. did you cheat on her?
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