How do you let yourself love someone?

My boyfriend and I have had a tough relationship: on again off again, so I have been hurt by him. I found out he said a few mean things about me behind my back a few times.





The problem is, that I am too angry. I found myself having the overwhelming love feelings for him. I wanted to tell him how I felt, and was just really happy to be with him a few days ago.





I ended up getting mad at him instead and was angry towards him. I brought up some of the stuff that happened a few weeks ago.





I don't understand why I act this way, because it's not just with him that I have done this.How do you let yourself love someone?
maybe, the both of you had some misunderstandings or quarrel and probably, he said those things in anger and doesn't really mean it?





i think that the both of you can work things out. maybe you're too stressed up inside? try to loosen up a bit and be honest about your feelings too. it isn't easy to be in a r/s, so there's gotta be more communication and understanding involved.How do you let yourself love someone?
First of all, how old are you? a young teen? you probably are not old enough to know what true love is. True love is not about, on again, of again, kind of love, true love lasts. you take each other as you are, you build a future together, you trust, respect, honor, love, and support each other in all things. and don't squabble like children. you need to wait for true love until you grow up. and if you ARE '; grown up'; you need to... GROW UP!
You need to understand him better if you did you would understand his feelings about this most normal emotion. For one its too easy to fall in love.