How to forget a lost love?

If you are in a loving romantic relationship and suddenly your boyfriend/girlfriend ends it because he/she fell in love with someone else, how can you heal the wound of losing your loved one? They say ';time heals all wounds'; but it can take years to get over your loss. Any help in how to get over it without trying to get involved with someone new too soon?How to forget a lost love?
That is a tough position to be in, but almost everyone has suffered an irretrievable loss of someone they once loved, maybe it's a boy/girlfriend, maybe it's a family member or friend lost by death. Get rid of the things that remind you of that person, favorite CDs, pictures, stuff like that. If the object has any value, donate it to Goodwill. Do something different that gets you out of your regular rut. Don't dwell over the loss by writing sad poetry no one wants to read. Challenge yourself to learn something different, something that was hard for you in school. Best if you do this in the company of new acquaintances, like take a class, rather than something you might study online. If you can afford it, take a trip to someplace you've never been before.How to forget a lost love?
They say ';time heals all wounds'; but they also say ';absence makes the heart grow fonder';


Damned either way.

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If you keep yourself busy, sure it will distract you for the time being.


But one day when you slow down and stop to think, it will still hurt just as bad.





Don't try to go out and find a dude, you'll end comparing your old guy to the new one. And that's not fair on him.





My advice is, find things to in life that give you meaning. That make you feel good about yourself. Maybe volunteer at a Children's hospital? It will help you remember that you are a great human being, and that he was a fool for dumping you.





Eventually, time will pass and you'll realize you can go out there a find a new man.





Hope I could help.
if you are that type that always has to have a man on your mind, then fall in love with someone else. check out other men. Get a crush on someone else. While you looking at another, and admiring him, a few hours will pass and you will be surprised when you see something that reminds you of your ex. because you will be that went a while without thinking of him.





It always works. they call it the rebound.
I've been there! People say time heals all wounds but it sure doesn't feel that way. The first thing delete anyway of contacting him cause it your like me you'll call just to curse him out cause your hurting.


Second throw away any thing he gave/bought you Last but not least get a really good friend that's there to be your support cause beleive me you'll need it!


Good Luck Hopefully its over soon



that's happend to me 1 week ago


but do like me


to to find something else


sport - friends etc


or try to find other boy/girl friend


may be u will love him or her


or may be u will just forget


whatever the both are good


and dont ever love the person who make a pain for u


who love u .... ok


who hates u .... F**K


i'm sorry for u


but me too ... i'm in this su


thnx
If you have a photograph of that person, first burn it and then flush it off.


You will really be happy and refreshed. Hope it was useful. Thank You.
Do things to make yourself a better person, to help bring your confidence level back up. I am always at my best when I break up with someone.
Spend a lot of time with friends and family,doing the things you like.Go to dances sports whatever makes you happy
pamper yourself get a massage, get your hair done, go to the gym the full works!!