Friday, August 20, 2010

Shall i end the relationship ? Please help!?

so heres the thing


ive been going out with my boyfriend for more than two months now


of course ive been enjoying every single part with him and


we had some arguments and everything but everything was ending up okay


but for more than a week ive been considering living him


as im not sure if he is seeing someone behind my back or that it isnt going to work out in a


long term


as we have seeing each other once a week for a short period of time


he was saying that he loves the idea that i am letting him so much free time


but i think once a week is a little bit rare dont you think ?


i would love to be with someone who is willing to see me more than once a week


and to my dissapointment i havent seen him last week and he didnt txted me or anything saying why


and in conclusion i want to add that sometimes i had a feeling that sex was mostly what we have been doing recently


so i think that overall this whole going out sucks


and i want the equal match as without it i`ll rather being on my own


so what should i say to him ?


should i end this ?


and how ?


i want him to be my friend as i dont want to lose him


i do love him and i think he loves me too


please help ?Shall i end the relationship ? Please help!?
I think the majority of people here are right...especially more so if you live very close to each other in the first place. It would be understandable if it were a long distance relationship (which I'm having, and have had with the same partner for over a year now - always on the phone to each other, and making time for each other once a month for a week...it's tough but we're both making it work which is the main thing.). But it doesn't seem to be a long distance relationship at all. I'd do exactly what everyone else has said, explain it the way you've said it, and if you find yourself thinking you really MUST end this relationship then do it SOONER and not LATER, because if you leave it for too long, the heartache on you is gonna be reeeeal heavy stuff to deal with.Shall i end the relationship ? Please help!?
i would NOT move in with him because this guy sounds like he loves his freedom more then you (((sorry to say that)) if you end it just tell him hes not what your looking for and explain to him what u told us . you will get over it and move on .


good luck , relationships are so tough to deal with at times . it hurts so bad.
well, don't have sex for awhile see where that takes you then if things still like that...hit the next button take time off from seeing or talking to him because you'll probably wanna have more sex sooo take like 3 weeks then hit him up and talk normal and ease your way through to get the info
I think it麓s always better to be on your own, working on self esteem, self respect, self love, than with someone who thinks you麓re worth being with just once a week. The first step to getting people (or men) to love you, is to love yourself. Good luck.
I'm sorry I don't think he loves you I think he loves sex with you and that's all.


Growing up means changing and if that means changing friends that's okay, you need friends that respect you too
Of course he doesn't love you or he'd want to see you a lot more. Move on.
have a talk with him and ask where the relationship is going.


and make a move from there
2 months is not a very long time, things are fresh and its understandable that you would want to spend more time with him. Talk with him about it. Tell him you would like to spend more time with him, and see how you feel about the relationship after you've had more time with him.





Afterwards if your inner voice is still telling you that this isn't the relationship for you, then leave. Trust me, I waisted 2 years with my ex trying to make it work, when deep down I knew it wasn't truly the one for me.
tell him exactly what you told yahoo answers, you want him to be you friend,and you dont want to loose him, and you do love him, its just not working as a relationship at this particular time, with school and everything else going on, and that maybe during summer youd like to try again when you both have a little more free time.








return the favor, please


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