How do you know when to end a relationship?

I have been with him for 2 years now. At first it was all lovey dovey.


now he doesn't talk about much. we always do the same things all the time. nothing fun or exciting. we only see eachother on weekends because he's at college. i feel like i am used for sex sometimes too. we cant lay together without him making it lead to other things.. we've kind of grown apart in some ways. we both are interested in many opposite things.. which isn't bad but now it's to the point where we dont have much to share.. i love him so much but i honestly feel so fed up now. like what is the point? he's away. im here.. i've revolved most of my high school life around him.. so now i lost alot of touch with my friends.. ahh... what else.. i don't know.. i've thought about ending it before i just dont have the guts.. i hate being the bad guy.. i hate drama... and when i really think about it i cant picture him not in my life.. although we have broken up before.. but i just cant seem to do it.. can someone tell me when it is really time to end a relationship?How do you know when to end a relationship?
This is one of those things that only you can really answer.





how fed up do you need to be to cut the ties?


can you be friends afterward? (more power to you if you can)





evaluate what is truly important to you.


make a list of what qualities your Mr. right has to have--and then match them up with your boyfriend. Sounds cold, but you may find it enlightening.





Ending a relationship is painful and difficult. In this case, perhaps you are not alone in wanting to end it, but HE doesn't want to be the bad guy, either. If you have good communication, why not just ask him how satisfied he is with the relationship, or if he wants to date other people. It'll put him on the spot, but maybe you will get some answers that will give you a measure of peace.





I think if you're thinking more often about how wretched you feel, it might be a sign that you're ready to move on.





And ending a relationship doesn't make you the bad guy. It makes you the honest guy.