Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you learn to trust someone in a relationship?

I am in this relationship with this girl i love to death and she means so much to me but i always have to throw in a comment about her cheating on me and it sucks cause she hasnt done anything to any guy at all she tells me everything.my last relationship end with her cheating on me all the time and i found out about it and i just left so i think it has started to effect my current oneHow do you learn to trust someone in a relationship?
TRUST IS A LEARNING PROSES


IT DOESN'T COMES IN ONE DAY.





THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS


NOT BE DISRESPECTFUL OF HER BECAUSE OF SOMETHING THAT HAPPEN TO YOU IN THE PAST





EVERY DAY IS A DIFFERENT DAY, AND YOU WILL LEARN TO TRUST AGAIN





BUT FOR NOW YOU NEED TO GIVE HER A CHANCE


GIVE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP A CHANCE TO SURVIVE


SO LOVE CAN BLOOM,AND THE SUNLIGHT CAN COME THROUGH AGAIN FOR BOTH OF YOU!!!How do you learn to trust someone in a relationship?
I think its all about communcation/trust in a realtionship.. That always helps. Dont worry it will okay :)
Without Trust you have nothing. If you don't trust her, and you have doubts, could be you yourself, are insecure. Just a thought.
Then leave her, obviously the girl isn't happy cuz your not making her happy. When you are with a girl you make her your number 1 and make sure she is happy.





Leave her if she is doing this to you. This is all you got to do, and hopefully in your next relationship you make this new relationship better and have her be your number 1 just like i said!
thats hard, it was a bad experience and hopefully she can see that and deal with it for a while. Trust is a big part of a relationship though so keep thinkin to urself, shes never done anything to me, and it will get easier. Time will also help, give it time and trust will come but hopefully she understands why ur a little worried about gettin hurt, ur past relationship was hurtful and maybe she'll see that....good luck
tell her u have problems with trust due to your last relationship an I'm sure she will be more than happy to work with u.
did you tell her that?


try to trust her cause your untrust can harm your relationship


it would be hard but every time you think about throwing in a comment about her cheating STOP


good luck
That's totally unfair to her. You can't bring your baggage from a past relationship forward with you (everyone has baggage - you just have to learn to stow it away in the closet).





So, stop making snide comments about cheating - you'll make it a self-fulfilling prophecy. You'll lose her. Trust her until she gives you reason not to.
It could happen to any of us in relationships at any time.


You just have to RELAX.


Or not be in a relatioship at all.
I am in the same predicament as you but only I am the girl who's boyfriend is always thinking that I might cheat on him. We love each other to death but he keeps getting depressed when he thinks about me and other dudes. He even has dreams about it. I have never cheated on him and I never will but having your boyfriend always question you about cheating on them does hurt your relationship.





If you really love this girl then think about all the good things that she has done for you. Think of the good times you to have together. If you know that she feels the same way about you like you do her then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. This is not your previous girlfriend, not everyone is selfish like she was. Give your new girlfriend a chance. You just need to have faith about you, her, and your relationship.

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