Can you love someone and cheat on them?

I dated this guy for the longest time and and sometimes he could be such an asshole to the point where i was ready to end it and then he would be so sweet but by that time i was already fed up and i ended our relationship but i took him back once before our final ending. Well n~e WAY after we broke up he would still always try to get me back sometimes they we're immature ways and they never worked i would just always ignore him but i was always thinking about him constantly, he would always call me and we still talked even after we broke up and one night he told me he loved me and i didn't say anything back because i didn't believe him, and then he asked me if i loved him and i just sighed and he got kinda pissed and told me not to say i loved him if i didn't because he wanted me to mean it. I never said it but i did love him. Well i moved away and every now and then he would write me on myspace and ask me how i was doing and if i still thought about him. a couple of years have past and he just recently wrote me and i finally wrote him back and then he wrote me back and said he still misses me and that we should hang out. I mean what does all that mean could he still have feelings for me after all these years?





I cared for him deeply, i mean i was in love with this guy and he hurt me repeatedly in the worst way. i mean our relationship was always some kind of dramaticism due to him and the fact that he was always cheating.





UghH sometimes i just don't understand a man's complex nature!!!!





I just don't understand why so many years have passed and i still think about him how could i not be over him after all these years.





Question: Can you love someone and cheat on them?Can you love someone and cheat on them?
Yes,it's easy,the only thing is that women smell other women on you,so make sure you have a shower.Can you love someone and cheat on them?
I think he is just using you. He was constantly cheating on you so what makes you think he has changed? Why would he keep coming back and telling you he was sorry, then going and repeating the same thing? He obviously doesn't love you.
HAHAHA... ';man's complex nature';???? Hun women can work out a guy in the first date, some men never work out the woman even if they are married to them.





This guys a total player he want interested in you when you were together and said he loved you coz he wanted you to be trapped even further.





Just read you question, it shows that you were played by him and quite badly by the looks of thinks :S





I reckon that he'll meet you and try start it up again as he wants to have a puppet to control as there are very few women that become that attached to guys the way you did. Love find yourself a nice bloke you will return what you give... And no you cant love someone that's cheated as you can't trust them... Answer mine...





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when you're in love, the thought of a member of the opposite sex sexually disgusts you





so no, definitely not.
Yes, but the temptation all depend on you, whether you will allow yourself to be tempted or not. Everywhere you look and go temptation is always there. If there is love and trust, you will never cheat and play with someone's emotions to test your physical attractiveness and emotions for someone.
How can you cheat on someone if you love them? If you love someone, you would not want to hurt them and be faithful. The question of being with someone else shouldn't even cross your mind, and you will always thinking about that person. Well that's how I am, maybe it's different with other guys. When I love someone, I would do anything for them, hurting them in anyway is out of the question.
NO
Yes possible. It all depends on the guy ur dating with.
short answer: NO!!!!





please answer mine:


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Yes you can, Love is an infinite thing and you can love someone and still be sexually attracted to another. The reason you think about him so much, is because he is the most attractive guy you met so far. Hes given you all these memories that you attribute to happiness so you associate him with that. But a cheater is always a cheater. And he obviously doesnt care very much about your feelings. I wouldnt get back with him and look for another guy. But if you do, make it an open relationship so he isnt cheating on you, and you can hunt for a better guy.
if he really loved you, he wouldn't of cheated on you. do you think he's changed? possibly. but even though he said he loved you, the honest truth is that words are only words and nothing else. he can sweet talk to you all night long, but his actions say something else.





so really its up to you to believe him, but in my opinion if you really loved and cared for somebody, you wouldn't ever want to see them crying or purposely hurt them. so no, you can't love someone and cheat.