How do u breakup with someone you love!?

me n my bf really really love each other very much....but our relationship is a reck!! we always fight and always breakup but we can never stay away from each other for long....i know its bund to happend but i just dont wanna get my heart broken...also i really wanna do it but im just to attached like i know at the end its best but i just dont have the guts too!!How do u breakup with someone you love!?
You have two choices. If you truly love each other, it is time to seek counselling to learn how to compromise and agree on solutions. If that is not an option, then breaking up would be best. The continuation of the relationship you now have does not sound like something either of you want for the rest of your life. After the breakup, it is easy to drift back together because that is familiar territory. It will require an effort to meet someone new and accept them as they are. Too often we expect the new person to be just like the old.How do u breakup with someone you love!?
dont take this the wrong way but it doesnt really sound like your in love...you may not be able to stay away long from him becuz he is all you know...there are a lot of guys out there and one day you'll find another and go ';wow, so this is what love really feels like?';





the first step to breaking up with him is downsizing his role in your life...start affirming your independence, stop clinging to him...start hanging out more with your friends, stop talking to him on the phone every hour on the hour





you dont need to break up with him in one fell swoop...start distancing yourself from him little by little until you feel like you can break the relationship with ease
If you really love each-other you shouldn't want to break up with him. Many things change, in my point of view; life is a mess of variables. I could say something nice and sweet that is going to happen, but that would just be an assumption. Sorry to break it to you, but that's life, you should move on in my opinion, break-up with him 'nicely'. That way, he'll come to reason and take it slowly. This way, you can get together with him another time if you feel you really love this man.





I hope this helped out hun.
Just be friends. You don't have to date other people right away. Just take a break. Don't call or see each other for 30 days. If it is working out stay away from eachother. If you can't stand being with out each other then start dating again. Maybe the time away will make you respect eachother more. Or maybe your better off apart. Do a trial run.
Your just going to have to do it. It's going to take a lot of gust to do it. I had to end a really bad friendship as well, but in the end it was one of the best descion that i have made in my whole entire life. Do it in person doing it by text, or phone is low. But i really wish you luck, be strong =]. Can you please answer question?
if ur going 2 dump him then give him hints like dont talk to him as much, act like u dont care wat he says, or just end it quick by calling him and tell him. trust me i had the same problem. by the way after u end it dont talk to him for 3-5 weeks or u will start to like him again. trust me
heres a great idea: tell him you want to take a break and be friends for a while. This way it is not as akward, you can still see him, and no one's feelings will get hurt. You never know, he may feel the same way.
Like a band-aid. Fast and don't waste anytime. Whenever you break up someone feeling are BOUND to be hurt. Is just the cold hard truth. Do NOT feel guilty and feel pity so stay with him. Just DO it. I know this sounds hard but it is the best move.
Just tell him you want to drop the label of boyfriend and girlfriend that it's not working out and you both need to find someone you're more compatible with.
If you love him or her why would you want to break up?
Break up, date someone else, or move.
if you love them why are you breaking up?
hard situation, no idea honey... I think it's normal, I have seen a lot like this... just let it go...
then maybe you shouldn't break up with him