How do you get over someone you're still in love with?

I'm currently in a relationship with someone that I care for very much. I see a future with this person. But, somehow I can't seem to stop thinking about my ex...I never got to tell him that I love him, and I never found out how he truly felt. It was as if the relationship ended before it started; it lasted for 21/2 months. What keeps me wondering is that he gave me a mix cd and when he played it for me he said that a few songs on it have a meaning and one of the songs was ';everyone falls in love sometime'; by Whitney Houston. I want to let go of my emotions, but I find it hard to fully move on. Is that even possible?How do you get over someone you're still in love with?
hunny, you never get over someone that you truely loved. especially if you are not that one who ended the relationship. but a relationship thats 2/5 months old and ending...you didn't really know the guy to begin with. you had a brand new relationship even when it was coming to an end. the best thing to do is to just end it. forget it. throw away everything that might remind you about him. tapes. cd's. letters. voicemails. texts. videos. clothes...EVERYTHING. focus on your new relationship. you're holding on to something that means nothing. if he ended it with out giving you a good reason/explaination, then it isn't worth the time of trying to remember or trying to get over.





x3How do you get over someone you're still in love with?
if the breakup is recent, then it's understandable that you still aren't over it. your relationship ended in the early stages, when things are usually at their best, so maybe this is why it's so hard...i don't know. i dated a guy in 1996, broke up with him and never got over him. we reunited in 2007 and married in may of 2008. if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. maybe you both need grow a little more before you can work.
time will tell.......and if that come....trust me...u even laugh at yourself that WHY did u like this person???...lol (it always happen to me....don't ask HOW many times???..lol)
What you're lacking is something I call closure.





It's terrible to leave things hanging; things tend to eat away at you without relenting.





The best advice I can give you is to get that closure - confront your ex and lay everything on the table. Discuss the fact that you had feelings but that you don't anymore. Make sure you believe yourself as much as he does.





Then I suggest that you discard things that link you emotionally to him (that mixed cd for example).