Monday, August 16, 2010

Could you look past someone's religious beliefs?

If you truly loved someone could you look past the fact that they were or were not religious? My boyfriend of 2 and a half years is religious, I however am not. We have never had a problem until recently. We have been talking about marriage and kids and how our lives would be. I personally could care less that he is religious. I love him for who he his. I love all of him even if that includes religion. I have told him that I would get married in a church for him and as for as kids go I would want them to have a choice whether or not to be religious. I would want them introduced to both parents personal beliefs. And I would love my kids whether or not they were religious just like I love my boyfriend. So I guess I am asking if the average person could look past religion or would you actually end a relationship with someone over it?Could you look past someone's religious beliefs?
Every situation is different but I think most of the time it is more of a big deal to the person who is religious. To the non-religious person the fact that they have different or no religious beliefs--they don't see it as an obstacle.





However, to a lot of religious people it really matters.





But every situation and every person is different. I find it hard to believe that your boyfriend would still be with you after 2 and half years, if he really thought the religious issue was that big a deal.Could you look past someone's religious beliefs?
This is a relationship ending conversation. You cannot look past the religious aspect. It will be a common theme throughout his life obviously and your kids will be involved too.
my first husband was an athiest and I am a catholic. I babtised my children, but let them pick there church. My second husband is buddist and I am still catholic. married 16 years first time, 13 and still counting 2nd time
I think it would be very hard for a relationship like yours to succeed. Resentment would grow probably on both of you. I wouldn't recommend it.
I had a very good friend once tell me that no matter how nice I am or how much money I make or how I look could she ever see herself with someone like me. I asked why she said because she is very religious and I am not as religious as her. She believed thinks that I didn't and vice versa. We are just friend and don't feel that way about each other but she was just explain the situation of religion in a relationship. I am religious I just don't carry the bible around with me and she does.
Good you have not start the fighting part. If he has a strong religious beliefs, you will have problem at a later stage. At a certain point in time you need to have same beliefs in order to be together with him. That is.

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