How many chances do you give a man?

I was engaged for 1 year and just recently ended the engagement but still dating and working on the relationship. I am thinking of ending it all together because the same situation keeps coming back around. First, seven months into the engagement he sent a dirty picture to an ex-girlfriend and I found the pic and questioned him and he felt truly sorry and we decided to work it out. I had known of this girl and questioned him quite a bit but he always said we are just friends. Until the pic I assumed that it was just friends. She doesn't live close to us so I thought no harm right. So we stayed together and when we had a big fight he called her to console him. We share a fun bill so I found out and confronted him. He said he was sorry he called her and knew I would be upset. We worked thru that. Now 1 year 4mos into the engagement I find that he is talking to another ex-girlfriend about business. He swears she has a boyfriend and they were only talking because of business but he didn't tell me he was hiding it because he knew i would get upset. So I end the relationship and he moves into his own place and I am wondering if I have been unrealistically thinking that he was going to make the same mistake he made before again. So my question is: I love this man everything about him except his not being forth coming about things, but how many chances do you give someone? I keep thinking I treat him in such a way that I would tell him if I talked to my ex and I desearve the same, espesially since we had the incidence with the ex and pics earlier last year. Trying to build trust again this way is making it worse.How many chances do you give a man?
No more chances. You have given this man so many chances to prove to you that he was sorry and he wouldn't do it again, but apparently he isnt. You are letting him take advantage of you. No matter how much you love him, you will always end up feeling like this is you stay with him. Find a better man who will treat you right.How many chances do you give a man?
After finding that picture, that would have been the end of it. He seems to always be bringing his exs into your relationship - three is a crowd! He has a pattern and it doesn't involve honesty and being faithful. Let him go. There's someone out there for you that will treat you like a queen and not have ex girlfriends to bring into your relationship. You seem to be the honest one and he hides too many things from you. Is that the way you want your marriage to be? Avoid a divorce and don't give him anymore chances. He doesn't deserve you but some great guy out there does!
.How many chances do I give? Depends on what the issue is. For something serious, he might not even get a 2nd chance.
Give this man no more chances! I've been there im still there but you had the will power to walk away dont let your guard down theres someone perfect out there just for you
Only one chance in life and then dump him. If he does it once and you forgive he'll think you're a push over and do it time and again. I rest my case when I read what he has done to you. don't give him anymore chances...he doesn't deserve you

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