How do you end a relationship when your both in love?

My boyfriend and I are very much in love after 4 years of dating I still at time feel goosebumps when I see him and I know he feels the same. He's told me the thought of him seeing me with someone else drives him almost insane. That being said, now how do you end a relationship with someone who you share these deep feelings for? I've realized for a long time now that we are not very compatible. I have a few children and he has one whom my boyfriend is very ready for him to move to college. I want to get married so bad! I am almost to the point that I can't stand living alone anymore but he finds it very difficult to get along with children. ( Not that he is a bad person or hates children. He just dosn't know how to act when in their presence) He doen't want to get married. Not just because of the children but because he enjoys his freedom too much. Help! I've tried so many times to end things but we can't seem to get away from each other for too long.How do you end a relationship when your both in love?
At some point in a relationship, you realize it isn't going any further and you have to choose what you want for yourself. You are well aware that he isn't going to commit on a permanent basis and; you shouldn't settle for less than what you want. You can care for people and let them go because it just isn't going to work for you. In life, you will care for many people in many ways. Frankly at this point, you are just wasting time because it isn't going any further and you know it. I would have a real heart to heart with him but be sure you are ready to move on before you do it. If he is satisfied with the way things are and you aren't, move on and don't look back. You will be lonely for a while but someone else will come along and perhaps that person will want what you want. The older you get the harder it is to find a person of quality so I say move on and do it quickly and with no regrets. If you part while you care and before you become disillusioned with the lack of commitment, you will always remember him with a smile. But you will be truly happy too because you moved on to the life you want and deserve. But have that talk, give him a bit of time to think about it and then have your plans made-Plan A %26amp; Plan B. Good luck and peace. May you find what you desire and always remember, you deserve what you desire.How do you end a relationship when your both in love?
I would talk to him about the whole children situation thing. I think if you break up with him, you wish you hadn't in the long run.
If you still get goosebumps when you see him, after 4 years, you're crazy to give him up! Have you tried counselling?
ok, when you have a fight or something, just tell him, ok stop, you know what? we're done cuz i can't handle this anymore, and tell him ur reasons....i did that, it worked. lol.
Seems like you'll just have to muddle along as you have been.
I think you two should stay together...and learn a new word.





Compromise
Be firm. It seems you have already had this dicussion with him. If you haven't tell him you are wanting to marry and tired of being in a relationship that isn't going to committ to desire to marry. He might change his mind about the idea of marraige if he is that in love with you and doesn't want to lose you. As for him and the children that seems like something that could be worked out. I don't know your situation so I'm only speculating but sometimes people just need to be let known how to do things. If he doesn't make an attempt then yeah I'd agree that he wouldn't be compatible.





If your sure that ending things is the right choice then just end it and stop talking to eachother altogether. At least until you've both had time to move foward with your lives. His towards his freedom and yours toward marraige.





Good luck.
If he doesn't get along with your children, then he doesn't love you as much as you think he does. If he really did love you then he would understand how much you need him to get along with your kids. I say just say the four simple words, ';I need some space'; or ';I do not think that this is working we show take some time out. Just that your kids is where all your attention should be at right now and if he can't except them then he can't except you, them maybe he isn't the right guy after all.