How do you get over someone you love?

I got dumped about 5 months ago and I was in this long relationship with my first love...it ended bad because i decided to not have sex and he basically dumped me for some girl who had sex with him their 3rd day into their relationship. Which their relationship started an exact week after me and him broke up. I was devastated and to be honest, i still am... i don't know what to do.How do you get over someone you love?
ok well if you truly loved him then you probably wont get over him until your married or fine someone way better ...the same thing mainly happened to me a few weeks ago but the girl that had sec with him was my best friend so i lost a friend and a boyfriend...i will get over someday like you will get over him someday...sorry i wasn't much helpHow do you get over someone you love?
Tough it out. That guy wanted sex, and you didn't (yet or whatever) and he left. He's a jerk. Forget about him. hang out w/ur friends, something to get it off ur mind
I know its hard, but trust me, it does get easier. You did what was best for you by not giving in to pressure and waiting to have sex...you'll never regret that decision. If he couldn't accept that, than he doesn't deserve you. Break-ups are rarely easy, but you will meet someone else who will treat you with the respect that you deserve and you'll be happy that it ended with this guy.Just try to be positive. You can get through it
Baby you need your FRIENDS!!! Fill you day with your friends. If you don't have any you need to make some. Work yout brain stay active! stay busy. Its gonna hurt. You will be ok. It will not be your first heat break i promise the ave. person falls in love 5 times in a life time that means you have 4 for heart breaks to go. GO GETM! lol GOOD LUCK SWEETIE. Get up get out!
have sex with his best friend.
Oh, come on!!!! Pretty much anyone over 18 has been dumped!!!! GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE, DEAR!!!!
if he truly loved you he wouldnt of let sex being the reason for not being together if you are not ready he should respect that. you made the right decision. he doesnt deserve you, you two seem to be on two different pages anyways. but i would keep busy so i wouldnt have time to think about him. you should also surround yourself with people you love, get out and do something, do just mope around and think about him. in time you will realize you made a right decision and you will be glad you did. best wishes! be strong.
First of all, you made the right choice. Some guy who just wants sex -- he obviously got what he wanted soon after things were over with you. He's not suffering like you are. And you can learn something from this. You can learn that how you feel about someone doesn't mean that they feel the same way about you.





This ex treated you badly. Period. You're both young. This is bound to happen! The vast majority of romantic relationships do end. You are learning painfully from your mistake. It is hard to invest partly in someone emotionally. But you have to learn how much you can trust your boyfriend. That's why taking it slow is important. Rushing into something can make one side of the relationship feel disastrous when it's over.





Think about WHY you think you love this guy. I bet a lot of it was the time you spent thinking about him and hoping that you share the same feelings. He, like most young males, has other more pressing needs. Try to learn what is appropriate emotion for a relationship. You said this was a long relationship, but that's relative. Is 6 months long? What about 4 years? Or 8? Remember you (and he) are still growing, and that's physical growth, mental growth, emotional growth. And don't discount hormones.
Hey Alexis!


You give just enough information that I cannot really nail down a solid answer.


You got dumped 5 months ago after a long relationship. How long!


Why did you not want to have sex?


The real problem with sex outside of a real commitment is that there can be so much dishonesty it is doomed from the first day. How long were you dating before sex came into the picture? If less than 6-12 months, and I really have seen this happen, then sex becomes the focus and the real relationship is put on hold...sometimes forever. Seeing his behavior right after you got dumped proves my point. Sex alone cannot be the glue for a lasting relationship.





You are experiencing something that is so typical in non committed relationships; As a female, you enter the sexual part with your whole heart and soul. As a male, and not committed, he was just in for the dessert.





Please learn from this lesson. The pain you are in will pass but don't ignore it. Pass through it to the other side and you will be a stronger person for it.
Try to do a hobby or start hanging out with your friends anything to stop you from thinking about him
Well here is what i would do in the mean time I would do a lot of things to keep my mind occupied stay busy never have time to sit down because if you do you will start to ponder on the bad things that has happen to you trust me i know but basically what i do is do things that i love like shopping and going out to eat plan a spontaneous weekend with people you love and that you know u would have fun with.
Time heals all wounds they say...actually I had exactly the same thing happen to me in high school, I wouldn't have sex with what I thought was my soul mate and the love of my life who I had dated for over 5 years, both in high school and into my first year of college. Then I was dumped for a girl that would have sex with him (and it only had to be for sex, because she was far from what could be considered attractive....I had been a model so I think I have some perspective on looks)....but after the new wore off his relationship with this girl, he came back looking for me, as he found I had substance, respect for myself, and didn't sleep with everyone. We were broken up for over a year (and I was dating someone else), but eventually we got back together, got engaged and were back madly in love again.... and it was all working out great, until he went into the military and was killed overseas....so you will never know what twists and turns life will throw you....so put your seat belt on and get ready for life, and all the bumps in the road, and actually you will never get over that special person, you will find new loves, but that person will always have a special place in your heart, that can never be filled by anyone else. One thing I do have to remember him by however is in my high school year book where he wrote 'As long as the sun rises and sets I will always love you with all my heart' and I still believe that.