Q for women: Has anyone fallen in love with someone from another country online and ended up with them?

has anyone here met someone from another country online and fell in love and decided to go see them or they came to see you and ended up together or married? Can this really happen? Would you risk going to another country to see a man you had known through computer for a few years and whom you had seen through web cam and talked to in mic and if you loved him? What do you women think about this and what way do you think would be safest to meet the man you loved like this?. There is a lot of risk in this I know and a lot of emotion. Don't think I have not endlessly tossed the worries and risks around in my head till I could hardly think anymore. I am not subjective and so I seek some advice. I will appreciate any advice from women and any stories of successful or failed relationships like this......Thank you. It is not easy to love someone across the world whom you have never spent a day with in person in your life. There are so many risks, I know, but if he is the right guy, I will be giving him up for fear. Please, I am really hoping to hear from anyone with experience in this kind of relationship. Love is love no matter how it comes.....I know that things could be different when we meet but I wonder if I should ever meet him to see what could be, or if that is just too unsafe....you know? I do not want to be stupid but I also do not wish to miss out on true love.Q for women: Has anyone fallen in love with someone from another country online and ended up with them?
You know, we're on the same boat. I thought that it was impossible and there's no way that I can find someone over the net. But you know, I gave it a shot and for me, I don't think that it's just an internet relationship because you know that you'll meet this person one day.





For the past months, I've been deliberately trying to meet her but the circumstances won't let us. I'm not giving up on this... I love her and I will do everything to make this work.





I know the risks involved, but it doesn't include the doubt that she is who she is. I mean, you love that person and you drop your guards. Sometimes, the people around us are not enough that's why keep looking for someone who will love us. The thing is that, they are most likely halfway around the world.





I am currently working to things out so I can move to Canada and be with her.





Take your chances, don't listen to people and follow your heart.





Good luck!Q for women: Has anyone fallen in love with someone from another country online and ended up with them?
I'm trying it to see if it actually works. So far....... this has been the best friendship/relationship I've ever had only cause you communicate more and get to know them before you meet them. I just hope it works out. I'm happy. GOOD LUCK and I HOPE IT WORKS FOR YOU.
Yup...married 8yrs now, with 2 kids! There's a risk where ever you go! Just becareful. If your willing to travel bring a friend with you.
hello my beautiful friend


yes i fallen in love with someone but from my country i knowed him through net and i loved him he was work in kuwait finally we broke up because of his tricks .
I've fallen in luv with a person online, he was about to come to australia then i realised he took illegal drugs
my bro had a long distance relationship wit his now wife and mother of his child.





give it a shot u jus gota b careful..
I have friends who have had good and bad experiences with online dating. One friend is getting married next month but he visited often before bringing her over. It was years of courting her. My other friend chatted with a scotsman for 6 months and then he came for a visit. He was a loser. Sucked her dry and spent his time looking for other women.





I think the lesson is that there are good and bad relationships and the distance doesn't really matter. You could meet a liar and a cheat in a bar and you can meet the man of your dreams on line. Listen to the little voice in your head and plan a short ';get to know you'; trip.
You can't have a long distance relationship intracountry let alone somewhere else in the world. Someone is going to cheat. I've meet plenty of people while traveling around the world, and a couple of them have ended up coming to the U.S. and calling me to meet up while they're here, and to think that even someone yet met physically first could be a relationship partner... no.
A very good friend of mine met a woman from Poland when browsing MSN profiles and they began an online relationship for many months. He then went to Poland to visit her 4/5 months later and hit it off in person. She eventually moved to the UK to be with him last year (after 18 months of a long distance relationship) and they have been very happy ever since.





I think it worked with them because they were genuine when they went looking for friendship plus they were both safe (i.e. he visited HER, she took along friends when they first met, they spoke via webcams for many months).
one of my close friends is dealing with


this same thing right now! she's known him


for a little over a month but she's really infatuated


with him %26amp; they have everything in common


from what she tells me!





I'll tell you what I tell her: I think that it's very possible


for it to work out. Your relationship is possibly even


healthier at this point than it would have been if you'd


known each other in person for all this time. In other words,


you've been able to focus on the important things %26amp; build


a great foundation based on conversation %26amp; personality


as opposed to letting the physical stuff get in the way.





With a lot of couples I know, if you were to take away the


physical part of their relationship, there would be nothing left.





I think that that you've both obviously made an effort to stay


in touch %26amp; keep up an online relationship for this long, so


what is a plane ticket if it means being with the one you love?


%26amp; the risks are always there: but in my opinion, if he were


really looking to do harm to someone then he would have found


someone more readily available. It would be highly unlikely %26amp;


impractical for him to fly to another country after years of keeping


up with you just so he could hurt you.





hope this helps! %26amp; good luck :)
Before you even go and see him, check out his credentials and personal background online. Know the real person you are about to meet before meeting them face to face. Love is a dangerous thing, it throws you off guard and makes you make stupid mistakes. Find out about this guy first before making the decision to see him in his country. Get Dunn and Bradstreet or other trust worthy private investigators in his countries to look him up and find out his background. You have to be careful with anyone that you meet online even when everything seems so beautifully in love.