How do you forget someone you love after ending it?

A couple weeks ago, i ended a so called relationship with my best friend of 1 year and 6 months. I just couldn't take it anymore because she tried to be a friend and at the same time, kept leading me on but didn't lead to anywhere. I've been trying to keep myself busy as well as trying to think about other girls but most of the time, she would just keep appearing in my thoughts. I don't know what else i can do and i was wondering if anyone else has gone through this? The funny thing is that i've tried to end it many times before and she would always come back, begging me to stay and i would fall for it. However, after ending it for real, a part of me wants her back and the other part is telling me not to. I really did love her though (she even talked about marrying me and having babies) but how can i truly get rid of the pain?How do you forget someone you love after ending it?
Time is the best and really only cure for what you're going through. Every day it'll get a tiny bit easier. Until you'll find that she's slipping into your thoughts less and less.


For what it's worth, based on what you've said here, you've made the right decision. You're too good of a person to have to tolerate the kind of pain she was inflicting.


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there is no answer to that because if yu think there is a solution to get forget her and get over it in a day thats not possible..it takes time and its not the easiest.but it will come..and if yu are able to get over her quick then that means yu didnt really love her in the first place
time heals... i am in a roller coaster relationship right now with my ex bf of 3 years. he broke up with me last january. until now it still hurts. it hurts a lot but i drown myself on my work. i need to get things (him) off my mind.
time. thats it. nothing is going to just take it away. continue to remind yourself why you decided to end it, instead of letting yourself reminisce about the good times.
Only time will heal your pain. You will never forget her but you will learn 2 move on. I know how you feel cuz wehn me n my ex of 3 yrs broke up I didnt kno how i was gonna make it but then I met my husband. Now I could care less about my ex.
alcohol and whores man... thats all...
Time my friend is the only answer unfortunately. I had the same experience with my best friend and it was a 5 year rollercoaster experience.





Dating others would help, certainly. But she just kept coming back into my mind. It just took enough time away from her to get over her. I wish her the best in life, but she was no good for my mental condition.





For now, embrace the pain, remember the good times. You're going through a grieving process right now and it's important you experience all the emotions involved. It will make you stronger in the end.





And on a positive note, you'll be a much better partner for whoever is in your future.





Good luck to you.
It sounds like you really love this girl. As others have said before it really comes down to time. As times passes you will think of her less and less and you will see you are in less pain with her out of your life then you were with her in it because there isn't the constant reminder of her and the fact you can't have her in the way you want. If the love is true there is a chance she will realize what she is missing and want to be with you and marry you --- you never know. But in the mean time keep your mind busy and try to move on...good luck!