How he handles your meltdowns:
-if you're upset about HIM.. he'll become instantly defensive, especially if you start crying or raging. He'll follow up with a cold shoulder and screen most of your calls.
His meltdowns:
-File a missing person's report. The Scorpio man's meltdown is dark and depressing and in extreme cases may involve an extended disappearance.
Breakups:
Ices you out completely but rages/obsesses about you for months, even years. May Google you for life.
What He's All About:
Do you long for the predictable? Fear the unknown? Then stop reading now. The Scorpio man is a complex, often confusing creature who thrives on life's extremes. There is no such thing as moderation with this intense, all or nothing guy. He's as infuriating as he is addictive, fascinating yet exhausting..
..The Scorpio man will plunge into his passions, studying and experimenting until he's a walking encyclopedia on the topic. Mastery is his ultimate goal.
..In typical extreme fashion, he can be as self-absorbed as he is silent.
What he wants in a woman:
-Rule #1: Never, ever, EVER kiss his ***.
-Rule #2: Never show him that you want him more than he wants you.
The biggest turn on to a Scorpio man is your self-respect. After all, it's a rare woman who can keep hers intact around him.
The Scorpio man loves powerful women-- but it has to be the ';right'; kind of power. In a nutshell, you have to be just a little too good for him, just out of his league.. Masochistic as it sounds, the threat of rejection turns him on.
..Ultimately, he longs for a spiritual and sexual soul mate, someone to ';become one with'; on a truly intimate level. The Scorpio man's greatest fear his also his greatest desire. The woman who can patiently remain unrattled through all his turbulent cycles and many rebirths will keep him around for a lifetime.
Scorpio is the sign of deep bonding and extreme detachment, making him a bit schizophrenic about intimacy. Closeness frightens him because deep down, he fears separation. Abandonment issues? He's got 'em for days. While he longs to merge souls with you, another part of him is terrified to lose control. He feels pain at a deeper level than any other sign, and breakups can haunt him for decades. To protect himself, he'll try to keep a sense of ';space'; in the relationship-- having a long-distance relationship, working late, or keeping his own apartment. If you push him before he's ready, he'll draw back.
This could go on for years until he feels ';ready'; (read: safe enough) to come a centimeter closer.
Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth...You may have several breakups or relationship phases en route to fully committing. Though they will be harrowing for you, he considers these fiery emotional trials a purification ritual. In his mind, the more your relationship withstands turmoil, the more ';real'; your connection is. Hardcore? You bet.
With a Scorpio, no relationship is ever really over. He has a powerful memory, especially for pain, and he can't stand to let go of anything. Although he may obsess over you for decades, his modus operandi is usually to ice you out faster than a Subzero freezer..
Breaking up with a Scorpio:
He will obsess over you for years on end. Scorpio men bond at a soul level, so when you leave him, it will feel like you've ripped out a piece of his insides. Even if you break up with him because he won't commit, or you're sick of waiting, it doesn't matter. He will still resent you in some way.
He is the king of the ';curtain call';, so don't be surprised if he makes a comeback a few months later, attempting to charm you back..
Getting over him: When a Scorpio Dumps You
Trying to get over a Scorpio? Approach it like detoxing from a drug. Your body will ache for everything you loved and hated.. If you can't pick up and move to another continent, take a long no-contact break. He will probably stalk you on the internet, even though you may never know.Scorpios, is this true about you?
yeah, that sounds like us, especially the defensive and cold-shoulder means of dissaproval. also, the living on extremes and challenges sounds very true too, as well as bonding deeply. with scorpios, they usually either avoid a person, or go the whole way. a scorpio may not consider themselves to have many friends, but those that they do have, they will hold very close. same with their partners. they also want to be in control of a relationship. we can be kind of possesive, and if anyone else is flirting with someone who is ours, we may never forgive. on the plus side though, scorpios fall hard. if he likes you, he loves you, and will try and keep you close. scorpios have alot of secrets about themselves though, things that they want to keep private. if you can't live with that, break up, because a scorpio may be married to someone for years before finally showing something to their spouse. scorpios are mysterious, but don't try and break down our barriers to find out what we're really feeling. the barriers keep us feeling more secure, and without them, we're vulnerable. scorpios would risk their lives to stay unvulnerable. we will try and stalk you on the internet, even if you haven't broken up with us, its sad, but i've done it so i'll confess. scorpios are determind, creative, idependant, intense individuals.
based apon what i've noticed with scorps, this much seems to be ture to a certain degree.Scorpios, is this true about you?
Your are totally right check my question out. I am going through the EXACT same things you posted hear as we speak. I have always had the I don't care attitude towards my bf and then I have my loving moments I use his technique on him. I'm not hurt by the seperation i'm doing something positive with my time
ABSOLUTELY SOOO TRUE
';Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth...You may have several breakups or relationship phases en route to fully committing. Though they will be harrowing for you, he considers these fiery emotional trials a purification ritual. In his mind, the more your relationship withstands turmoil, the more ';real'; your connection is. Hardcore? You bet.';
Lol that sounds like how my relationship has been with my girlfriend last 3 years ';crazy!';. She couldnt' figure out why I would continually hurt her and break up with her while all along my true motive was just to see how loyal she was to me. That really sums up our relationship all too well.
';In his mind, the more your relationship withstands turmoil, the more ';real'; your connection is.';
lol that totally hits home with me. My girlfriend says I have to have drama in my life. I call it she will never leave me no matter how miserable our lives become. So I have to make her life miserable to see just how truly loyal she is.
I totally feel committed to her now though
Detoxing from my Scorpio boyfriend was easy there was no detox! He was evil pure and simple. I guess I was way out of his league because he turned on me like a rabid dog constantly throwing my accomplishments in my face like I was some kind of asshole for excelling! He always expressed his deep love and affection to me in words but never backed it up with actions! Superficial! He sucked me dry of my love and affection and left me starving and hungry for something in return. He clung to be like an infection and ate me alive inside like a parasite! I hope he does stalk me! Let him see and pain over what he is missing and the wonderful life he had but threw away! He is no drug... He is a poison!
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