How do you end a relationship with someone you really love?

The thing is, he's married and we've been together about the same time he got hitched. (he got married bec he got his gf pregnant). by the time we met, it was too late, but when we got together, he realized it was me he wanted. so now i realize it's wrong what we're doing and it's so hard to give each other up.How do you end a relationship with someone you really love?
Andrea, it's 2:17 am and I want to let you know there is no simple solution, because really, there is no issue here, just a series of facts.





The facts and details are what they are. The reactions, both emotionally and mentally are the taxation here. Having stated this, some of those reactions involve possibly hurting others, particulary a child who will infuse this experience into their budding.





We as humans have a way of making ourselves feel utterly worthless, shrouded in guilt and contemplation. We get an itch, we scratch in an endless repeat cycle.





We automatically assume that when we love, there is some kind of action that we need to take to ensure that. When the fact is, love exists with or without our offerings just fine. Meaning, love is totally possible, maybe even more joyful from a distance. Especially when it involves the implication of a innocent child.





Are you with me on this one Andrea? When you love, love bigger than your own personal universe.





Be well.How do you end a relationship with someone you really love?
Because it's the RIGHT thing to do, that's how.





This love of yours should not be about feelings or about how he makes you happy, it should be about cold hard concious decision. It's gonna hurt but you need to close this chapter with this person.





If you love him, you will end it and move on.
R u sure he wants u?


If he did, he would have left her a long time ago. Instead he is using u. Just tell him ur sick of being his toy
Perhaps, its difficult, but it is the right thing to do...as you said ';he's married';. Move on, and consider counseling to help you get through this, if need be. Good luck!
It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don't beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion.





The best thing you should do is ACCEPT and MOVE ON. Be happy with your life.





Everything happens for a REASON.
how can you say that lets get real you aloud him to have his cake and eat too you were the joke of his!!!!!!!
if he is paying your bills than you have no need to leave him. enjoy if he is not paying your bills than you are being used.
If he wanted to be with u he would of left her. I would step away from it. Why be called a home wrecker. Tell him if he wants you he must leave her or you guys can not continue your relationship. Yes it's easier said then done when you really care about the person. Just keep in the back of your mind he has a family sitting at home waiting for him.
You need some self esteem and big tall glass of reality. Reread this question and pretend it's someone else in your situation...





Guess what? Despite what movies and romance novels will have you believe, true love does not conquer all. You're messing with some poor kid's shot at a happy family out of pure selfishness. This man is not only married, but a father. Screw love. Try doing the right thing.
If he is selfish enough to cheat on his wife, he is selfish enough to leave her if he really loves you. If he loved you he would be with you, he has the best of both worlds here. Don't be 2nd best your worth more than that. cut all ties with him.





and do you want to be with someone who cheats? as he will do it to you too.





godd luck
Just got to put your priorities in order and find the one who is right for you. Tell him its over because you dont want to interupt the new family.