How to end a relationship with someone you love?

I fell in love with this girl over the summer then we had to force breakup. Then recently we started talking, but she has a BF





We have kissed and made out and stuff, and we fell in love again





Buy lately I've come to be bothered by the fact that I'm 16 and shes 13=(








I know I shouldn't be bothered by age buut this whole thing has gotten me very very depressed





Idk what to do. I want to let her down easy but idk how shell take it but I know this has to end soon=(





I really need help please help me idk what I'm goin to do to myselfHow to end a relationship with someone you love?
Um..you did say she has a boyfriend didn't you? Hello..why are you going on about age when you don't even care that she's taken and a cheater?How to end a relationship with someone you love?
exactly you answered this yourself you are 16 and in a different world than her...she is only 13 not even old enough to be dating...


You need to tell her that you can not do this anymore and be truthful, let her know you are going in another direction and you are! Just be nice and truthful about it. It is going to hurt her no matter what, but she will get over it she is only 13 and will be dating many others in her lifetime
If it was falling in ';love'; again, you wouldn't want to end it..





age is just a number.





But if she had a boyfriend..you should have known better not to mess up another relationship if you don't even want her.





But yeah, tell her what you feel, be straight up with her.
first of all.. hearts do heal....everyone has a broken heart or 2 in their lifetime.





dont put it on yourself of she is heartbroken please thats the last thing you need to do..





i just had a friend kill himself over a girl... its not worth it at all.





just let her down easy just let her know how you feel ..





since this is your second attempt to be together even though the first unded unwillingly.. you both have probably already and you fell in love with the person in the summer.





your only 16 and she is only 13... your whole life is ahead of you.. hearts do mend..





good luck
well tell her how you feel about all this happening if she doesn't like this ask her if she likes you more or her boyfriend that she has. If you know that you feel bad for doing all of this you have to tell her invite her over for dinner or just tell her i am sure she will understand all of this. If she stops talking to you or gets mad at you then she truely doesn't love you but if she understands then she will know how you are feeling and she will stay as ur friend. I hope this helps you
tell her the truth- none of that its me not you crap.





Just say that you love her but the age thing is a bit risky at the moment but you definately want to give it another go in a year or two.





Think about it tho- if ur put off by ur age then it cant be right! Im 14 going out with a 17 yr old.We mean the world to eachother and age has never come into it.As a girl, I know Id rather be told the truth than a handful of lies.xxx





Good luck mate, itll be fine





xxxxx
if you love her then age doesn't matter... why does it have to end?? if you love her and she loves you then why end it?? love is something to treasure so treasure it while you have it... my boyfriends parents married when she was 14 and he was 16 and they're still married and happy... 30 something years later
ive been in this place before....ok don't break it off with her. if she loves you she will dump her new bf. don't be consered about age ive dated girls 3-4 years older. its nothing to worry about. it sounds like she rly loves you tho so go with it. she'll break up with the other guy soon enough.
both of you do not know the meaning of the word love. use infatuation. both of you are too young to date. talk
You're being retarded. If you love her then age doesn't mean anything. My boyfriend is four years and two months older than me!
She's 13! She wouldn't know what love is!!!





What you're doing is illegal once your 16 and shez still 13


Best to just tell her it isn't working out and you should stay friends...
I think she's a little too young for you. I think girls your own age should appeal more. If you both were much older, 3 years wouldn't be such a big difference. She's just a kid. Let her grow up!
if you like her that much dont end it, if you end it on the age alone its quite superficial
Hang it out. The older you get the less age difference is a problem
Love her when she is a woman not a child.
ending the relationship sooner rather than later is probably what's best =]
What the F*** kid. U r still kids . Whats wrong wid da kids dese days . Having BF before13 and stuff. F*** u both man.
be straight forward! tell her about it.
it means you're a whore.
go out with someone else
boy..u need to grow up...
Matters of the heart is a crazy thing. You will hear all kinds of advice about the age thing. I understand it is hard to turn feelings off. She probebly looks and acts older than her age which does not help. She looks up to you and that feels good. First, you have to know that she is playing you. She HAS A BOYFRIEND! She does not even know what she wants. You are older and she thinks it makes her look older and feel older to make out with you. You are also getting to the age that you can be tried as adult. Put your hand somewhere it doesn't belong and the State (Cops), Her parents or even her can get you in trouble. Looking into eyes andkissing her and ';stuff'; feels really good, but there is a beautiful girl your age that you can hook up with, be friends with and kiss and it will be so much better for you. Not to mention that this girl is USING YOU wheather you or she thinks so. Until she is about 3-4 years older you really need to move on. It is for yours and her own good.
In less than 2 years you may be thinking about college, and she'll be a frosh in High School. That's how young she is. That's the reality.





The breakup is inevitable. You SHOULD be bothered by age, considering it's illegal. The fact that you are says you've got your head in the right place, so try not to beat yourself up too much.





Just tell her that you can't in good conscience be seeing someone who is seeing someone else. Then walk away.





Is it possible for a 13 year old and a 16 year old to be in love? Maybe. But just from your question, it doesn't sound like mature love. You know what's right. Do it and you will feel better.





Good luck.
youre right this should end soon. once you hit 18 that would be very very bad. but were you kissing and falling in love again while she had boyfriend?! well as of reacently i am NOT a huge fan of love and think that in high school its only puppy love. especially if your not giving the world to be with her. dont get me wrong i think we can love at any age, but right now its not as in the adult way, and tell her that as you get older and as you start to age and mature and start learning to love someone in a different way that she wont be at the same level as you anymore. its fine now but let her know that if you two stayed together and let your feelings grow in that way that when shes say 16 and your19 the age differance and maturity level will bedcome apparent. And hello this is our teenage years we should be getting out there and seeing what we like dating as many as possibel(like not hoe-ish but like to the movies..ect) and if you two are ment to be toghether when everything to do with teenage years are up then trust me when i say that fate will bring you together. tell her you love her more than anything and thats why you have to let her experiance life and get the full benefits of how old she is. tell her that youll always be her best friend no matter what. :)
Dont feel too bad, hell, when your 18 and old enough to go in the military and go to war for this country, shell be in junior high school still! shes too young!!!! in the state i live in, this would get you a registered sex offender status, mugshot placed online by zip code etc. shes not a woman yet!!!!! if you were 21 and she was 18, she would be grown! shes a kid!!! you better be careful, if she gets pissed off at you, then what? obviously its bothering you deep down and this is why your asking us what to do etc. just be her friend, tell her about the fact that she has to have a chance to do things and not be tied down, no matter what shes going to take it hard, shes a kid!!! you have to let her know your not deserting her and youll be there, but that you feel guilty how young she is and thats limiting to her, good luck