I know he has a gf already but I do love him.I dont want to have any regrets.He courted me and I said yes even though I know that he has a gf.He said he has no comunication with her gf already.I know his lying but I close my eyes.Im so stupid loving someone like him.I dont know how to end this relationship cause I do love him.What if you already enter with the relationship knowing dat person has already someone.?
well if you wanna continue to look stupid go right ahead. but life and this world is full of men so dont play yourself.What if you already enter with the relationship knowing dat person has already someone.?
Some lessons are harder to learn than others...and you haven't learned you can't have everything you want...and your about to learn why...You've accepted him as yours and know that he is someone elses...why treat yourself not to mention his gf that way...Your setting yourself up for heart ache because if the other gf has her head on straight she isn't going to put up with this and you'll either be out or she will leave and if she leaves he will deffinately be looking for another having you and they on the side...its a no win situation...this is not love...its selfishness.
why oh why oh why would u think so little of yourself that u would settle for being second best to someone else's man????? ok, so you can't help who u fall for, lord know's i know that. but if the guy is attached and he is courting you, doesn't that tell u what kind of guy he is???? say he breaks up with his girl and starts something with u, could you trust him? i mean really trust him???? think about that! girl, go find someone that wants u as his GIRL, not sum bit on the side!! respect urself and dump this loser!!
No,sugar-head,you don't love him,you think you love him!!! Love wants the best for both people involved,and you are going after less,and taking someone who is not yours to take, who is treating you like a hussy and he's treating himself as if he deserves the extra benefits from other females. He is most likely trying to get even with his real girlfriend,and wants to pay her back,but whatever reason he does it,it's not going to get you any place that you desire to be,and it can cause you alot of trouble. If you even loved yourself,this would be way too low class and tacky for you!!!! Develope a healthy love for yourself and move on!!! Run!!!!
you're setting yourself up for a huge heart ache.
As my mom always say free game as long as they are not married. If you know he's the one keep playing the game if he is just a stop on the bus ride move on.
LOL, I htink you said it yourself. I'mnot goign to say you're stupid, but you have to accept what comes with it. He may actually have feelings for you, but he is definitely onot giving you all you canhave. You're not stupid, but will get that way if you continue. WALK AWAY!!!! There is nothign but regret here. If you love him, levae open thepossibility about being together in the future. This is not the time for you. If you love him, you can both wait for what he has to end.
It is easy, just end it. It is not fair to HIS girlfriend. You are sort of helping him cheat on her. How would you feel if someone did it to you. And you obviously already regret it, or else you wouldn't ask the question. Just end it and find someone else.
i would **** them anyways and hard to
You need to put the ball in his court. This is his problem not yours. You need to not accept being second in his life. He needs to make a decision about if he wants to be with you or not. I am of course assuming you want to be with him, because you said you love him. I was in the same situation only I had a wife that I was technically married too (but we were like roommates) and I had a friend who turned into somthing more. I was very confused as to how I was going to get out of my marriage. He may be having the same problems, go to him and tell him you want to be with him but you won't be second and he has to make a choice. He may not choose you but atleast you will know and you can start taking your heart back for the next person who will make you feel love.
I hope this helps sweetie, and I hope that you find happiness.
This is a situation, that everybody must go trough. At the end, I am sorry I must say, you will get hurt. Only one thing you can do, except the fact that he is having someone else, and stay with him until you can live with that.
you should be so f***ing mad.
you stupid for being with someone who has a girl. remember what ever goes around comes back around on you. so you are to precious to be with someone like that. you need to find your own man you can be his friend
oh you need to move on ...#1 if he did it to her he will do it to you. Even if you get this guy all to yourself more than likely he will do the same thing to you and remember what goes around comes around. You are setting yourself up for heart break more than likely. It hurts when you love someone but and you need to walk away but You should love and respect yourself MORE. I would deff. get out of this relationship. like I said it will hurt for a while b/c love hurts but you will be happier in the end and have more time to be fining the one you're ment to be with. He is a waiste od time sweetie .
This is a really difficult question.We all know that we should not get into a relationship with someone who's already involved with someone else.
However, our heart does not care much about reason.
I would advice you to question yourself how much are you willing to suffer for this man? and is he Worth it?
If you are convinced he is a wonderful person and being with him makes you so happy nothing else matters then you should go for it.Be prepared to get hurt. But as far as I'm conserned the thrill of love, even if it only last one day is worth all the suffering it brings. Life is short you have to live it to the full!
It's definitely not worth it. If they really wanted you, they would break it off with the other person. Think about it this way, if you were on the other end of it, how would you feel if someone did this to you? Let them go and see if they come back to you.
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