How do you get over someone?

Me and my boyfriend recently split up, which was basically his decision. And i was ok with it because i knew it was ending anyway i guess, but after going out with someone for four months when you are fifteen, you get used to being in a relationship and you end up loving it in a way even if there were down sides.


So i was just wondering what are the advantages of being single and what is the quickest way to get over someone?How do you get over someone?
Oh ok i understand you a 100 % i have been through that. the first thing u need to know is that we always tend to think we are not going to find somebody like that person we have been dating . which is a 100 % wrong. for my own experience i can say that things happen for a reason and that ur next boyfriend is always going to be better than ur ex one . why? simple, experience makes the relationship stronger , you grow up every time u go trough a brake up- and with this im not saying u have to break up with all of ur boyfriends but for a fact you grow alot and as a consequence your next love relationship will be much productive. now this been said , u need to know that being single gives u alot of opportunities to enjoy your friends , school activities and be pain free LOL yeah cuz love can be pain full , anyway try to hang out with your friends (good ones) try to do good activities , such as going swimming , going to the movies , cook with ur friends ,talk about other guys and most of all this mentioned above is that you need to know that u are the most important being for yourself ... you are a very valuable girl !!!!! How do you get over someone?
I would say at 15 I had a 2wk bf :DDD the effects of which didn't last more than 2wks after breaking up. So could be about the same for you. Ask yourself was it really serious? Do you want to marry him? If the answer is no, you'll get over it soon enough.





You never forget them, but there are probably things you'd want to forget about them. Concentrate on that, not bitterly but to give you the motivation to Let Go.





The other trick is to not think about them at all, force yourself. Whenever you think of him, do something else to distract you - play music it's a good healer. For example: Gloria Gaynor - I will survive :DDD or Beyonce - I'm a survivor :DDDD





At 15, you've learned it's not likely to be forever, but don't base your existence on whether you have a boyfriend or not. When you're single you can find your own strengths.
Hey


My best friend and cousin went out for 16 months . and they're around your age - they recently had a nasty split up and i took her out


and we went to the under 18's nightclub then she slept over mine and had an amazing time


It didn't completely get her over it - of course it wouldn't its going to take a while - but it helped her realise that she can have a good time withought him.


It may seem like the end of the world babe but in time you'll find someonee else and realise that having good friends is just as good as a boyfriend





Hope that helped (:
Im sorry to hear this ,


but it happens everyday nearly and its hard i know but the truth is its his loss, don't go and get depressed get out there girl because there's much more to life than being in a relationship and i don't need to tell you the advantages of being single ,im sure you can guess then .





just show him that your the better person by moving on and he wil see !





i promise





good luck =]]
only time can heal your wounded heart, and it may sound harsh but the quickest way to get over someone is to find someone else. you don't really need to do that though, because before any relationship will work, you have to learn to be comfortable being single. besides being single is fun, you can do what you want, when you want, and with whomever you want with no questions asked.
you can kiss and date whoever you like thats a big advantage





when me and my ex split up i wrote down a list of all the bad things he ever said or did while we were together.


i deleted his number n e-mail address


i kept reading the list of bad things


i didnt go to places he was likely to go





i spent loadsa time with my friends, nights out and girly night in ect


the list is the best thing. keep reading it and it does make you realise what he is like. and dont forget to put the fact he dumped you on the list several times.





good luck!!!



well, the advantages of being single are you're free, you don't have to worry about affairs and you can't get mad at the boy cheating on you. he also can't break your heart if you're with a boy. the quickest way to get over someone is probably forgetting him and thinking about more important stuff. OR, to get over him, find someone else. glad i could help (if i did)
I sorta went through the same thing, and i think the best way to help you move on is to try to have fun, go out with your friends more and know that your single you dont have to worry bout talking and having fun with other boy, enjoy being single at the moment its prob the best way to be.
Im not the one to speak because im 21 and finding it hard to get over someone. Bit different for me cause i cant go out and forget about things cause im pregnant.





Get out with your mates, flirt with your male friends, go shopping and have a laugh. Trust me your young and there is always someone else out there for you. As much as i say this i wont tell myself this lol.





Good Luck hun x
FLIRT! that helps out a lot. Find a new boy to go crazy over because that really does help your mind forget about your ex.


The advantages is that you have no string attach and pretty much you can do as much as your parents allow you to.
K think


1 I am better than him


2 There will be someone better/with/without......kids money car etc


3 If he doesn't want me to be with him why the hell do I want him back


4 He is an *** for just breaking up with me


5 I AM SINGLE AGAIN BACK ON THE PROWL THOUGHT HE WAS PERFECT I DONT KNOW HOW can be your ringtone!
Explore the pluses and minues of the rerlationship and what you leared about him and you . Read He She and We, three short books by Robert A. Johnson to get the scoop for the next lucky guy.
well to be honest.


what i do is go out get hammered and get off with as many people as possible.





I know it's probably not the best thing to do, but i do it.
Find someone else, or something else.





You need to preoccupy your brain with something else.





Sometimes you just can't get over someone. I'm still crazy about a girl I haven't properly seen since I was 15.


I'm 20 now
go out with someone else.
time is the best healer.
aah 15 is vry young to hav a relationship wit any1...


u will b fine...mybe u 2 will get bk 2gether eventually....


good luck xx
Get involved in some activities, some clubs, and that will keep your mind off it. You might meet someone new, and voila!
concentrate on you schoolwork and career, dont be so eager to get involved seriously
the best way to get over some one is find some one else,