How do i end a relationship with someone I love?

Ok I feel like I need to break up with my boyfriend, but then I don't feel like I'm ever going to do it. I love him but I don't trust him and today I found he'd been trying to get in touch with someone that he was flirting with when we were going through rocky times. A month ago he was talking to another girl and I don't think anything happened like he slept with them but I know he thinks of them as more than friends and I don't want to be hurt anymore. He already hurt me more than anyone, I was even in an abusive relationship but I never loved anyone like him so firstly how do you move on from being with someone you love when you are the one who ends it and secondly, I'm gonna feel lost without him what do I do?How do i end a relationship with someone I love?
break it off and eat some chocolate icecream.





then go out the next day and find a man that knows how to treat a woman and make her happy.





don't stay with this pig. he is only going to continue to hurt you. you shouldn't live like that.





kick his *** to the curb. you will be glad you did in a couple weeks.How do i end a relationship with someone I love?
Pep talk time- You sound like a good person and you dont deserve what hes doing to you. I think you need to sit down and really think about your emotions and how much this boy really means to you. Do you really want to love someone who is going to hit on other girls and treat you like that? You dont need to be hurt anymore.
you just need to be strong.





you dont need him, you were born into the world without a boyfriend so if your not happy - he is not worth the hassle.





things will never work if you have doubts about his interests in other people.





there is always someone else, you wont see that now but soon enough you will


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i no how u feel im in the same way but what it is with me i dont want to be by my self u mite be like tht even tho thy treat u like s**t im going to tell him this thursday then i go on holiday to spain on friday moring 4 2weeks to give me time to get ova him an dhave sum fun good luck !!
it seems like we always fall hard for the ones who hurts us most but pain is not love so that means you have got to let go and you should never feel lost without any one be a strong woman and do whats best for you and your heart hold your head up
my moms like that n YOUR DUM no offense if you stay with him...obviously he doesnt love you the way you love him so get out.....there is sum one better for you out there trust me...if your multiculteral..and like more than one specific race..you will find them in no time
I know it sounds cheesey-but time is a great healer.Better to end it now b4 you get hurt a lot more in the future.
how do i end a relationship with someone I love?





Note: If you ';Love'; someone you don't break up with them.
time will make things better after you end it. end it before it just gets harder.
It is so very hard while you still love him, I know but: tell yourself and believe it, that you deserve better than this. If he loved you he would not treat you like this and you know it.


There is much knocking of guys on this site but we all know that actually men can be just as soft and slushy as women. They just need that emotional connection, and if it is missing they appear to act without much concience.


Get tough, dump him, get over it and then raise the bar and decide that you will no longer put up with this sort of behaviour from anyone. Remember that true love is putting another before yourself and he just is not doing this at all. Good luck.
Stop basing the break-up on your feelings. That will get you nowhere, since feelings change so quickly.





This isn't based upon feelings. This is based upon his behavior toward you, I mean the abusive part. No emotion required, once he's abusive, then it's time to leave.





Secondly, if you are incompatible, this too is not based upon feelings. Good, solid decisions never are. Love doesn't fix incompatibility. If you're incompatible, then no amount of love is gonna fix that. You can be apart and love him, and you'll be happier that way than to force yourself to stay when the two don't fit. Like a square peg in a round hole.





As for you being alone, so you'll be alone. You'll have YOU! You survived before him, right? So you'll survive after him. It is you who will be found!





NEVER EVER stay in a relationship where you're wanting to leave. It's a complete waste of time and it drains your energy. You deserve to be very, very happy. Everyone does!